Burdened today for the men of our church to be men of purity! It’s nothing new for me to tell you that our culture is saturated with sexually explicit material. If not overtly sexual, it seems to always lurk around the edges, luring the heart of a man in deeper. God made men a special and unique way, not to be criticized for, but to be celebrated in the right ways – Man is visual and thus the sexual temptation he faces are always right in front of him … on the computer, at the coffee shop, in the office, at the checkout counter, yeah the list could keep on going. The other problem is that men are proud, and as such in this area, seek secrecy and isolation. These two ingredients can be the recipe for disaster in a marriage, home, and church. I can’t imagine there is a person out there who hasn’t in some way been effected by the sexual sin of someone they know. My burden is not for greater accountability, though that is always good … my burden is not for throwing your TV’s out the window, though that may not hurt … my burden is not for canceling the internet service, though that may be needed … my burden is for the Gospel to be enough! For the men of Leroy Chapel to so earnestly desire the satisfaction of righteousness found in Christ that everything else is tasteless and bland. For men to so delight in the wonder and beauty of God that the lesser pleasures (sure they are pleasures) fall miserably short. I am not burden for greater regulations, more rules, or harsher exhortation … but a “panting after the water brook” that captures the hearts of our fathers who in turn disciple their sons who in turn live so counter-cultural that the pornography business goes under! My favorite quote on the subject comes from John Piper’s book Future Grace where he writes,
“When faith has the upper hand in my heart I am satisfied with Christ and his promises. When my thirst for joy and meaning and passion are satisfied by the presence and promises of Christ, the power of sin is broken. We do not yield to the offer of sandwich meat when we can smell the steak sizzling on the grill. The fight of faith against lust is the fight to stay satisfied with God. As I pray for my faith to be satisfied with God’s life and peace, the sword of the Spirit carves the sugar coating off the poison of lust. I see it for what it is. And by the grace of God, its alluring power is broken. I wield the sword of the Spirit against the sin of lust by believing the promise of God more than I believe in the promise of lust.” (pg. 335-336)
My brothers, put the sandwich down, savor the steak … and delight yourself in the glory God created you for – Himself! Fight fire with faith … not rules. Do you need to repent and get a Gospel refocus? Call me, let’s talk and seek Jesus together.
Satisfied in Christ,